Famiglia · Casa · Cucina

BenvenutiLa Famiglia Leo

Everything we would lose otherwise — the photographs, the recipes in her handwriting, the stories, and the people who told them.

Come in

This house is for family.

Make your account

You need the code somebody sent you. Everything else is yours.

Capitals or not, dashes or not — it doesn't matter.

However the family would say it. This is what shows up beside your photographs.

Nobody here can see it, Tony included. Write it down somewhere.

Happens to everyone

Put your email in and we'll send you a link to pick a new password.

Pick a new password

Then you're back in. This link only works once.

You're in

Eight doors below. What's behind them is whatever the family has put there.

No sign-up button without a code, and that is on purpose. The only way in is a code from somebody already here. If you're family and you haven't got one, ask Tony.

Get ahold of Tony on Facebook He will send you a code.

Keeping the house

Tenere la casa

Nothing in here is hidden from anybody by itself. Everything done in here is written down in the ledger below — including what you do. That is the point of it.

Who is in the house

Everybody who can get in, when they got here, and who let them in.

Let somebody in

A code, with their name on it so you both remember who it was for. They make their own account with it — their own name, their own email, a password nobody here ever sees.

The ledger everything, all eight rooms

Every correction, every removal, every photograph pinned to a face — who did it and when. The rooms have always written this down; this is the first place it can be read.

Things flagged for a look

Nothing here has been hidden or removed. It is sitting in front of you exactly as the family left it, because a machine deciding what the family may say about itself is worse than an awkward afternoon.

How the house is holding up

Measured now, off the disk, rather than remembered from the last time somebody looked.

The key

Only you can make one. A keyholder can keep the house, but cannot hand the key to anybody else — otherwise it stops being something you gave and becomes something that spread.

  • Everything on this page — the house, the ledger, what's flagged, how it's holding up
  • Can hand out an invite code, and cancel one
  • Can close somebody's door, and open it again
  • Can clear a flag, or ask whoever put it up about it
  • Cannot give anybody a key. That is yours alone.

Who has a key

A photograph of

From Le Fotografie. Pick one, then drag it so the right face sits in the circle.

Names, however the family says them. This is the one that matters most.

However much you know. "Summer, maybe '58" is a real answer.

Talking about it

What has been corrected

What is inside

Eight rooms. Everybody can add to all of them — that is the whole point of it.

La Storia

Family history

Written together, a page anyone can add to. What we remember, corrected by whoever remembers it better.

Le Fotografie

Photographs

Everybody uploads. The shoebox at your mother's house belongs up here where the rest of us can see it.

L'Albero

The family tree

It opens out as far as anyone can take it, back to the towns people left and forward to whoever was born last week.

La Cucina

Recipes

Scanned in her own handwriting, typed underneath so you can search it, and always with whose recipe it was.

Le Voci

Voices

Press record on your phone and let them talk. Ten minutes of her actual voice outlasts everything else on this page.

Il Calendario

Birthdays and name days

Who to call this week. Birthdays, anniversaries, onomastici, and the ones we keep on the day they left.

La Tavola

Talking

The whole table at once, or one person quietly. Named after the only place this family ever settled anything.

I Nostri Soldati

Who served

Every one of them who put a uniform on — the service, the years, the last rank they held, and what they never talked about afterwards. Soldiers, and the firefighters and police too.